My dh bought 1300 dollars worth of wooden fence last week. My husband laid down the fence pieces in the driveway, he had two pieces laying in front of the larger stack. Well today when I got home, me like an idiot, was on the phone giving directions, had 5 kids in the car, and I ran straight over the fence pieces! I reversed, got out of the car to find that the top of the wooden fence (just one fence) had been smashed!!! I freaked! So what I did was I put the smashed fence in the middle of the stack, and laid a good fence on top.
I am soo scared to tell my husband... Not bc he will beat me or anything, but in the last month, I have melted our microwave, like with fire, completely torched. My husband bought a brand new microwave for 300 bucks, and the first night we had it, I dented it with the cabinet door!! Then I broke the water pipe thing, and my dh had to replace that!! Then the tire got a flat, of course the day I was driving the car... the tire is not cheap!.
The wooden fence is 40 bucks a pop. not that much, but.... I just dont want to tell him!! But I think maybe I should bc obviously when he goes to pull the fence up he will see the fence thats smashed. He didnt do it, so obviously someone did, meaning me.
I am just so stressed!! I am sitting these kids, and this morning i took them to the beach, and there is sand everywhere!! I asked the oldest not to get in the water, and did she listen?? NO.. she got all up in the water and was soaked!! (it was my fault not being prepared, it was a spur of the moment decision this morning) and one of the children (aged 2) curses! He has already said fucker, and I put him in time out, he then kicked me and told me that his timeout was "bullshit". He hit my kids 3 times already, and when I gave him his food, he chewed it up and spit it out on the floor. Then the whole fence thing... Ughhh Im just so stressed!!!
Should I just tell him?? or not??
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