My nieces spend the night at my mom's house at least once a month and my step-father always gives them 2 or 3 dollars before they leave to go home. Well both of my nieces always say that their mother (my SIL) always takes their money and never gives it back to them (btw the nieces are 6 and 4). Well when my mom went to take them home, she said something to my SIL about it. And she opened up her mouth and told my mom, "Why shouldn't I take their money I feed them, buy their clothes, and take care of them. I spend all of my money on them!"
Now I don't think I would feel so horrible about this if all the things she says she does is true. In reality she gets food stamps, my mom buys their school clothes and shoes, and my brother who is having a lot of health problems does most of the cooking, laundry, and makes sure my nieces get on and off the bus so in reality I don't think that she should be taking money from them! I do think that she should take it and save it or keep it until they have enough to buy something they want, but I don't think she should be spending it on herself. How would you deal with a SIL like this?
Answer by hoping73 at 12:19 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by JLS2388 at 12:21 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by JLS2388 at 12:22 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by rkoloms at 7:18 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
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