Ok, me and my s/o have discussed anal for about three months now. We have agreed to try it, I never have and he has once (I am told). One weekend we planned to do it, and before that weekend he told me on the phone "I can't wait for our promise this weekend." Our promise? That comment threw me for a loop because I have never heard it called that and we never did it that weekend. I don't understand how we keep talking about this, planning it and it NEVER happends. I wait for him to make the move for it and he doesn't. What is up??? We did try one time but didn't have much time before I had to go meet my ex with my kids. He comment that night was "I didn't think it would be that tight....we need more time." We have had the time, he just never attempts anything. I don't get it.
Is anal and intiment and you have to have that or you can't do it?? I would like to consider it somewhat intiment and it isn't something you just do with anyone. Don't know, confused I guess. I have tried to talk to him, and all I keep getting is, "oh yes we will be doing that soon."
It seems as though "soon" never comes......what is up with that?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:28 AM on Feb. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:38 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 11:41 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
A lot of the guys I have known swore they would never do that cause it would make them feel gay, maybe he is having anxiety about that, or he is afraid of hurting you. Either way I would say something is definitely bothering about it.
Answer by mommy-perks at 11:42 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by eevers at 11:44 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by dreamcatcher13 at 11:49 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by Snewo at 11:37 AM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 12:00 PM on Feb. 27, 2011