For the past month I have been working 2 jobs, in order to create a buffer in our bills. Well, I also go to school full time. The reason we need a buffer is because my SO has major debt and it has just been faulting right and left. So me working and helping out more hasmade it possible for him to pay off a number of debts already.
Well I am ready to quit the newest job I have been working. Since I started that job I have done minimal HW in my classs and it is starting to show in my grades. Of course he doesn't want me to but I'm not benefitting much when you look at it in depth, he is. I have crystal clean credit. I don't have debt I can't afford, he does, I feel like he should have the second job, not me. What do you think?
Also, which is really just the icing on the freaking shit cake is last night after he got off work he didn't bother caling but left straight to his friends house, when I called his friend because I heard an old VM saying they were planning to hang out, my call got ignored. He came home at 4am.
So I kicked him out. I'm just done h0onestly. Don't know what to do. Everytime he hangs out wth this friend he acts as if he doesn't have a family, never calls, stays out all night, nothing.
When he came home I said that he obviously needs a break from his friend so he can relearn how to be a partner and a dad. Obviously if a friendship makes you be faulty to your family, then its not a positive friendship in my eyes.
He's still gone. I have no care tohave him back. The child support will allow me to pay our rent on time and I will be just fine. I'm just done
Asked by Anonymous at 12:07 PM on Feb. 27, 2011 in Relationships
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