my first is almost three and my second is 6 months old. Being a mother is much easier than being a wife. My husband doesnt like to really talk to me, just regular stuff. he avoids emotional conversations because he worries about the way they'll end, not so well, as usual. when i make him have one, he always says, "thats why i never like to talk". but he can't be right. I regret alot in my life, not going to college , getting married early, things like that, he thinks when i never open up, its just nicer, quieter. but i feel choked up inside. I feel like my marriage/life is totally sugarcoated. What should I do, I don't even know what I want. just that i thought a husband would be more supportive, listen to me more. He avoids this sort of thing. Even sitting around with me, am I over reacting, I just feel like my marriage lacks life... so sad all the time.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:14 PM on Feb. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by juliness at 4:20 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 4:31 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by mohme2three at 4:39 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by rkoloms at 4:51 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
So sorry for you ((hugs))) I think you know what you want though~"I don't even know what I want. just that i thought a husband would be more supportive, listen to me more" ~ Get counselling and talk about it instead of bottling it up~ if talking about it is not working write him a letter when something goes on and have him respond. All the best.
Answer by sanab at 6:47 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by sanab at 6:49 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by Betutah at 12:41 AM on Feb. 28, 2011