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me and mi babyfather not 2gother, we brokr up 2 days i went in... we still not 2gother and mi son 1 month old... we broke up because i went in his phone... he told me im always his boo, and his number one.. every time i ask we start over he say give him sum time away... i think there another grul and told me its not.... he move out my house.he said he cant live with me no more,,,im so depressed because i love so much i do know what 2 do

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:07 PM on Nov. 20, 2008 in Relationships

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  • If you dont trust him move on. It doesnt matter if he has cheated or not. You dont have trust therefore you cannot love him. You probably need some time to yourself to learn to love yourself before you can be with anyone.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:09 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • i agree anon.
    if you dont trust him regardless of what he has or hasnt done you cant love him and build a healthy relationship. move on take some time to yourself and your baby. you may find your happier with out him. maybe you both need time to grow up and learn to love yourselfs first.
    Mommy2B04

    Answer by Mommy2B04 at 1:10 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, 5 doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; 6 doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

    8 Love never fails.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:11 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • You did not tell us how old you are but you sound very young. If he does not love you then he is missing out and you should be trying to focus on other stuff like your little one. Don't go loving someone who does not love you back - love yourself and love your baby. Can you find support so that you don't feel lonely? I can only tell you that time will eventually heal your heart so you need to try and not think about him.
    Avon_Calling

    Answer by Avon_Calling at 1:14 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • forget him and move on. he doesn't love you. he is not showing you any level of love and i'm sorry if that hurts but you best think about you and your baby and not depend on him. depend on this is that you can't depend on him. he is not ready to be a parent and to be there with you. the sooner you realize this the better. it's to bad really cause now your baby has a broken home but that is why it's so important that people are married first when they have babies and maybe you should of given this baby up for adoption so it would have a whole and complete family. your bf is a loser so kick him to the curb. he doesn't want you or the baby and he is telling you by his action which speak louder then words.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:18 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • He cant take the responsibly of the new baby and wants his freedom give him it take his ass for child support

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

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