ok, so i was raised in a crzy insane family. Ver negative, talk about everyone, take everything so darn serious and no enjoyment of life. I love my mom and sister but they come to see me every 5 weeks or so and everything is so negative. For example in my town there are 5 restaurants and when they come down we have been to them all. Every single one of them I can think of something negative that happened when they were there with us (for example--rude waiter(so what?! should not ruin your day) or not taking her out of state check(took 5 hours to get over that one) Maybe not the best examples but its all I can think of right now. I mean its like the negativity transfers to me and I get mad too even though I know it is not a big deal!
Also, I am trying so hard to quit cursing and do better. But when they come down it is f bombs everywhere. I really love them both and do not get along with my dad(alcoholic and crazy) but I just want to live my best life I can and be the best example for my kids. DH thinks I am crazy and says they are not negative but he has not been raised in a negative household like I have. There was never any I love yous and definetly no hugging. How do I get over this and what do I do when they come to visit? (my kids love them)
Asked by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Feb. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 7:19 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by jeanclaudia at 7:20 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
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