I am trying internet dating...help me pick my date,having a difficult time deciding which one would be ideal for me

 #1, he is self employeed (i think he is still finding himself), he is into dungeons and dragons, hanging with his guy friends and making videos of each other jumping off roofs, car surfing, and other daredevil activities

 #2, he likes to travel, is into fashion and interior design, has lots of 'girlfriends', he calls them his b!itches, and has a complete cd set of barbara steisand

 #3, he has a few months left before we can meet me (past obligation, he says) he has lost most of his family a while back (did not go into detail), he has not dated in 10 to 20, his hobbys are making license plates and thinking about his past while planning his future and tieing up loose ends

 #4, says he has always treated women with respect, not into the bar scene or partying, a very gentle person with a good moral backbone, great father, gets along with his ex, and lives a quiet life with no drama