I have a good friend that I have not seen and rarely hear from since she got with a new guy and its worrying me. Just little things. She deleted her myspace account which she had spent a lot of time on and was very proud of it. She doesnt call me anymore and doesnt answer my calls. She used to check in on the family and I often to see how we are doing at least one text every couple days. Now I have to initiate conversation on text and it takes her forever to get back to me and she just writes short blurbs. I asked her what happened to her myspace and she said "I deleted it I didnt want it anymore" so I just replied "oh okay. Are you still able to make it to my shower sunday? Ill come pick you up if I have to."
Answer by figaro8895 at 2:30 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
Answer by LovinEveryDay at 1:58 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
Answer by melody77 at 2:15 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
Answer by amydh at 2:15 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
Try to make it seem like you are happy for her by asking if he is the one and telling her that she seems like she is really in love this time. If that does not open her up. Then let her know that you are still her friend and have noticed some change in her that is cause for concern. It does sound like he may be controlling her. If she grew up with beatings she may not realize that adulthood does not have to be like that.
Answer by wmbeener at 2:30 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
Answer by LovinEveryDay at 2:53 PM on Nov. 20, 2008
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