1st, I do not want anyone to be rude cause of the lengh of this question like what happened last time. If u don't have a helpful advice or even a little criticizing cause I know I am at fault too, so if u don't have anything "nice" to say, don't bother.
I have known for awhile my DH had something bothering him for awhile. Really got the point across when I didn't get even get so much as a card for V-day. I have told him endlessly, over and over again, how would I know if I am doing something wrong if he doesn't tell me? It seems when I need him to tell me what is wrong is to pick a fight/argument, one which I excel in. For example, I tell him if he doesn't let some of this frustration or whatever he will have a stroke. He replies "Good maybe I will won't wake up" That pissed me off. So I tell him "well u may want to jump in front of a train instead, less of a chance of surviving" Yes I know I know, the absolute wrong thing to say, but I got fed up on the feeling of wondering if I did something, walking on egg shells, feeling sorry for himself, but yet he won't say anything. I absolutely WILL NOT do this shit again like I had to when I was living at home with my step dad and wondering what will pull the "pin" out of the grenade this time. The problem he says he has is the over sleeping I do. For a long time I have had trouble going to sleep and when I would fall asleep, it is hard for me to wake up. Theres time I wouldn't go to sleep until 7am, even if I went to bed at 4am. All I do is toss and turn so he can't sleep, so i get back up. So while I am sleeping, he is with our dd and he can't get anything done that he needs to cause I'm sleeping. Told him over and over again to just wake me up, it not like I have to be somewhere. He replies "I am not your father" Grrrrrr He say he feel bad if I was only get 2 or 3 hrs of sleep. It doesn't bother me!!! What the hell can do? He claims he don't think our marriage is gonna last if this keeps up...??? We have a rough patch and hes wanting to give up?? After 10 yrs?? Really?!?!? if he does desides to give up, I will not have a place to live, so I lose my dd!! I don't have family here. Damn!! I am still mourning the loss of my mom. She died back in October, I do not need anymore shit to happen!!!
Answer by dusty1962 at 9:59 PM on Mar. 1, 2011
Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:31 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Have you tried working on the insomnia? Here is a list of helpful ideas to get to sleep. I know that I can't sleep if I am worried about things. So I really try to only worry about things I can change and I also do whatever I can during the day to get rid of what is worrying me. If I know I have to pay a bill and know it is due, I will worry about paying it. So I make sure as soon as I have the money, I pay it.
Work on a bedtime routine.
As for your husband... men are weird. My husband stays up late at night and then is pissed off when he has to get up early. You need to work on you so you can help him. ♥
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 11:39 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Answer by JawgaMom1 at 11:52 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
Sorry... I forget the list of suggestions.
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 12:42 AM on Feb. 28, 2011
Answer by amessageofhope at 1:13 AM on Feb. 28, 2011
Answer by txdaniella at 11:24 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
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