Well have been working on trust issues with the hubby this week went pretty good so tonight were in bed talking about a porno my brother gave us to watch so I told him lets watch it tomorrow night when im not tired and your not intoxicated and it can be fun and romantic no kids etc. Well he said here you go putting limitation on when we can have sex your just like all the other women so i said you mean your ex wifie he said yeah she would only have sex at night.
I didnn't mean it that way but in his drunken stage he blew it out of wack so i told him we need to talk about this and he got really mad then so of course i got ghetto and said don't you ever compare me to your snaggle tooth trailer trash usless ex...i was pissed i said im not her and never will be here and i am nothing like her i have class.
then he told me to fuck myself so i told him the same then i said thats it NO man will be in my life and talk shit like that to me. I told him well i didnt compare you to other ass holes who cheated on their wives did i and he said he didnt cheat and i said yeah because i found the text before you could.
I told him i never once compared you to my ex boyfriends and you are the first and the last im done. I don't know what his problem is ..HISTORY before he met me HONESTLY he had nothing didn't even wear cologne wore BCG and was poor paycheck to paycheck his life with the ex they did nothing and his kids dysfunical one a meth head and one in prison for sex with his under age cousin.
He met me I moved him up and dressed him up we have been on cruises, vegas twice a year and have money to just have fun with and he's talking shit to me comparing me to the ex. He's the one making the problems by trying to cheat and he said yeah I wont let this die and I said yeah i have BIG trust issues wouldnt you if I tried to cheat, he said nothing of course. WOW I don't think I can handle this i am not use to this kind of drama and for him to compare me to his bi polar ex and call me names oh HELL NO. Ladies i did try and now I think I might have to kick him out and move on what do you think.....He use to be so sweet and didnt drink much but the last month since I caught him texting a women he's been mean when we argue and drinking more.
I can do bad by myself but confused.....HELP need input...marriage is sacred and should be treated as such but he violated our vows i can't forget and i hate to keep bringing it up when we argue but when he was compareing me to his ex.....that was it so he wont be getting any sex from me and I told him to go to his fucken hoe...i was upset and still am. He is now sleeping in his man cave and Im in the bedroom...he never even lived in a house until he met me and didn't eat half as good as I feed and take care of him....im so sa
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