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If you ever had an affair...

Was it worth it at all? Are you still with your partner?

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Asked by sondaughter312 at 11:02 AM on Feb. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Never had one and never will. I could never hurt my hubby that way.

    Answer by gutterflower585 at 11:03 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • I did years ago.  A lot of stuff was happening at that time, won't bore you with all of the details.  It definitely wasn't worth it.  Yes, my hub forgave me and we've moved on.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:04 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • I wouldn't recommend it. The only reason I did was because my EX was beating me so it was my way of getting even with him. If you are gonna cheat then you don't really love the person you're with

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 11:05 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • I didn't allow my self to have affair. Somethime I feel for secon somthing towrd guy, but I stop my self immedietly. And it is not wore it it is shittttt


    Answer by lelly1019 at 11:11 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • agreed with june_mama. if the love is truely there there shouldnt be an urge to cheat. If there is an urge to cheat you should step back and weigh your risks and why you are feeling that urge. It is never worth it thee are too many things that could go wrong.

    Answer by ashleyirwin at 11:12 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • no not worth it at all, i am still with my DH, but it has been a roller coaster ride ever since

    Answer by Jssg1986 at 11:38 AM on Feb. 28, 2011

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