so just to recap, (I posted a question in CM about 3 days ago) my period is late which is very out of the norm. I am never ever ever late (every 28 days at 9:00 AM like clockwork). My husband and I have had sex twice (since my last period) but both times he never finished (because of the new medication he is on it has really affected him sexually). There is a possibility that I am pregnant but the chance seems slim to me. I am now 4 days late no sign of a period at all. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests both of which are negative not even a faint 2nd line. But my husband thinks I am either crazy or cheating because he has not (in his words exactly) Hoody Hoo'd in my Hoo Ha. Now he is being very distant to me. I know he is thinking "is she pregnant? How? with who? this is upsetting to me. I never have and never will cheat on my husband. I have told him that just because he didn't finish doesn't mean that some doesn't come out, and it can still get me pregnant. now what... oh and if I don't start in about a week I will try a test again.We have been wanting to get pregnant again and I would be so excited to be pregnant again but I asked him how he would feel about it and he just kind of shrugged it off.
oh and the having sex ONLY twice in the last month is a whole other issue. He has been very distant for the last couple of months. I can't get him to have sex at all ever the 2 times were lucky to happen and usually we do about 2-3 times a week if not more. I have tried to talk to him about it but he just won't really say anything to me about it. I have tried everything to initiate it every night and he is not at all interested. I just don't know what to do Is my marriage in trouble? I think this is just the icing on the cake at this point.
And yes I have posted this already earlier but I have gotten hardly any feedback
Answer by specialwingz at 1:41 PM on Feb. 28, 2011
Answer by isabellalecour at 1:49 PM on Feb. 28, 2011
Answer by kayslay at 1:55 PM on Feb. 28, 2011
Answer by momofkids at 7:13 PM on Feb. 28, 2011