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Is it possible to be in love with some one but attracted to another person???

my husband always provides for the family, he puts us first all the time..im 38 weeks pregnant and he is always talking about how he cant wait to have this family with me, and he is so glad im the mother of his child...he constantly looks at me with so much love...... but lately i have foung that he has been on other dating sites......he asks these women if the want to meet for drinks. i have seen ads from escort service saved to his computer and pictures of women in barely any clothes.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:45 PM on Feb. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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  • uh... that sounds like conflicting evidence to me
    juliness

    Answer by juliness at 3:46 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • the pictures are one thing but actively trying to meet for drinks from dating site and escorts? i would NOT be ok with that
    juliness

    Answer by juliness at 3:47 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • Looking is one thing, you aren't talking about just "looking." Your husband apparently has a little issue...he's a cheater! At least a cheater in the making. He's doing all this in front of you or are you catching it behind your back?
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 3:48 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • hun you need to talk to him and like now.. he may love you but you don't want him to make a mistake either..
    Lynnsae

    Answer by Lynnsae at 3:49 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • Red flag!!! Time to figure out what is really going on.
    tiddliwinks

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 4:08 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • It doesn't mean he wants to marry them. He may truly love you but just wants playtime (or viewing time) with others. Tell him to stop if it bothers you.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:35 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • The pictures are probably just a guy thing, but asking women to meet for drinks = trouble city in my book.
    doesn't look good in my book.

    whether or not he loves you has nothing to do with whether or not he'll cheat. Sounds conflicting I know, but whether or not he loves you doesn't always mean much to someone when the question arises on if he will be faithful.
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 5:18 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • Here is your: HERE'S YOUR SIGN! AWARD!!!!!! Honey u can do so much better than settling for the one I'm raising my children w/ versus bein the 'ones' he goes to every night or whenever he decides to be a dumb a** & do that! Be strong listen to ur heart!
    MomofSteel

    Answer by MomofSteel at 7:43 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • i mean, it could just be that he's scared because his life is about to change. he could have no plans to actually meet these women, it just gives him confidence to talk to them. talk to him and see if that's the case. if it is, tell him that you know he's going to be a great father and you appreciate him so much.

    if not, if he says he's actually attracted to those women and wants to see them-then you need to have a serious discussion about your future together. just because he pays the bills and says he loves you doesn't mean that he can run off and see other women at his leisure.
    erinwhitt

    Answer by erinwhitt at 7:49 PM on Feb. 28, 2011

  • yes, yes it is
    Jssg1986

    Answer by Jssg1986 at 1:07 PM on Mar. 1, 2011

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