I am a single mom. I recently started dating a very nice man. I did not think it would go anywhere for several reasons but now that we are getting to know each other, he is amazing! He is everything that I want in a husband and nothing that I do not.
We are both in places in our lives right now where we can really only date. We cannot have relationships because neither one of us are able to put that much effort into a relationship so we agreed that we would keep the dating casual but with the expectation that we would eventually turn more serious.
The thing is, I don't think this could ever marry him because he wants more children. We have talked about it and I told him I never would want more. I even told him that if we need to stop seeing each other, that I won't be upset (maybe that was a lie). He does not want to stop seeing me. Last night he told me that it hurts him that we cannot be more serious with each other and that if I decide I want an actual boyfriend, he would be more than willing EVEN THOUGH we have our limitations on time and such.
I feel the same way! But I already know he wants more kids and that I do not. How do I just walk away from this incredible man?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:52 PM on Feb. 28, 2011 in Relationships
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