I'm going to visit a friend this weekend who just had her first baby. I spoke with her on the phone and she told me that her bf and her had a big fight because he was questioning the baby's paternity. She insists that he's the father, but I know her pretty darn well considering that I've known her my whole life. She has a history of lying BIG lies & heavily flirting with the guy he's suspicious of. She even made a fb profile under the suspected man's last name while pregnant with her bf's child. I don't believe that she's 100% sure, but I didn't tell her that because I don't want to insult her. During our conversation, I told her that they sell DNA tests at the drug store and she could easily shut him up with that. My exact words were "You can slap him in the face with the results when they prove him wrong." but I think there's a possibility that her bf could be right about the paternity. I feel really strongly about women being unsure of who the father of their child is but not saying anything. If she really did cheat, it would be sooo wrong of her to continue to lie to him and have him raise the baby on his dollar.
Would it be wrong if, in the event that the subject comes up, I tell them to get a DNA test at the drug store to find out. But I plan on suggesting it under the impression that I believe her and it's for her benefit to shut him up, but really I have his best interest in mind. I don't want to be a bad friend, but I also don't want to stand idle while a friend does something that could be so wrong. My rationalization is that even if I'm wrong & he's the father, he'll just be quiet & finally trust her. But if it proves he's not the father, at least the truth will be out and he can make a decision with the full knowledge of the situation. I feel like suggesting it is the right thing to do, but I just don't want to be the meddling friend. It is just bugging me so much that I know something and I'm not speaking up for what's right.
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