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Baby Fever

im a stay @ home mom, and my hubby n i have two lil girls ages 6 & 3. I want to have one more baby buy my hubby says no. im going to be 24 in a couple month and him 28 so its not like we r to old for childern. But i have bad baby fever , i cant stop thinking about it its kinda making me crazy haha plus in the last 6 month i know at least 8 ppl that have had babys my own father even had a baby boy 6 months ago.. every time i see a baby im like omg i want one .. Anyone else have this problem right now? or anyone had it and got over it ???

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Cherriemama831

Asked by Cherriemama831 at 11:03 AM on Mar. 1, 2011 in Health

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  • i can't blame you! :) i'm the same way and i have 3, one only 9 months. i was never baby obsessed before though, i just love my children, and i love how they love each other and i could have a million :)
    juliness

    Answer by juliness at 11:05 AM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • Y does hubby say no? Can u afford one more? What is his reason for not wanting anymore? Is he feeling neglected?
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 11:05 AM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • I have it from time to time, and i HATE it lol. only because i now i cannot have another baby right now. =[ BUT just go see your friends' babies and even ur baby brother, good thing is, u can give them back lol
    knicole0708

    Answer by knicole0708 at 11:06 AM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • i had it. but he finally caved and now we have a 7 month old daughter. (also have a almost 4 yr old son) i looked at him one day and told him be prepared because we are going to start trying to have another baby in august and he just laughed and said yea right. but we did start the first week:) good luck
    newlife627

    Answer by newlife627 at 11:15 AM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • my and my So have 2 kids (our child together n his from a past relationship) he says since he has 2 kids he doesnt want anymore. but i keep telling him i want a boy since we have girls but he keeps saying no then i told him i since we just had our baby and we didnt need aonther for like 3 r 4 more years bc i dont want them close togehter. our girls are 3 years apart that is great. so i told him lets wait 3-5 years and see if we want more we might say yes then and we might say no ya know

    see if yall can do something like that i know your kids are 3 and 6 but maybe yall can work something out
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 11:18 AM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • He said that we dont have room we just recently bought a 2 bedroom house. and hes done having kids and he said we should just focus on rasing our girls. Which yea is true ... but i dunno like i said i still want one. I guess he sees it as taking away from our daughters whick i sort of see like having to split things 3 ways instead of 2 , but i know alot of ppl that have 3 kids. I dunno i just cant stop thinking about having another baby. I already told him i wouldnt want kids past 27-28, but even waiting till then a few years.. And i also told him if hes really serious about not having anymore then he should get "fixed" cuz im not going to. its safe less painful for men anyways, but then he said hes not comfortable doing it cuz i still want a baby. He told me he thinks id leave him to have a baby w/ someone.. i told him hes crazy i wouldnt leave my family to have someone elses baby. im not that selfish come on now haha
    Cherriemama831

    Comment by Cherriemama831 (original poster) at 12:03 PM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • i dunno if im gonna get over it , i dont want to force him in having a baby , cuz i would want him to be happy to have another baby not be mad cuz he didnt want one ..... i dunno guess its just wishful thinking but it annoying i want it to go away already
    Cherriemama831

    Comment by Cherriemama831 (original poster) at 12:07 PM on Mar. 1, 2011

  • I just went and visited my friend who had a baby (about 2 years ago) and your not too old!! im 28 with one on the way
    augboy11

    Answer by augboy11 at 1:21 PM on Mar. 1, 2011

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