I have been close friends with 3 guys since I was in 6th grade- going on 17 years now. We were always called the "core 4" to everyone else who knew us. Other friends have come into our circle and left again but it's always been us.
Over the years there has been some drama- but what group of friends haven't had that? At the end of high school I dated one of the guys for two years and then we split but remained close.
It recently came to light, though, that my ex slept with one of our other friend's now wife! But he also slept with MY sister....when he was staying at my house. All 3 of them lied to me about the whole situation and twisted it in a way that I just shrugged it off and thought it was just some misunderstanding.
I have stayed in contact with 2 of them, but I refuse to hang out with my friend's wife or speak to my ex.
Now I'm pregnant and really don't want any of them in my life or in my baby's life. So how do you tell people that have been in your life for so long and have been through so much with you that you don't want them to be a part of your child's life? And that you feel better when they aren't around?
Answer by ria7 at 12:36 PM on Mar. 1, 2011
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Answer by Dani3lla at 2:12 PM on Mar. 1, 2011
Eithertell them straight out or fade into oblivion. Depends on how much potential drama you want.
Answer by 1smartcookie at 2:19 PM on Mar. 1, 2011
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