that doesnt mean you have to follow their stupid rules....
This was said by my 23 year old ( that means she is a year older than me) "future sister in law" .
My brother is in the military and got deployed, before he left he fell in her trap ( I am saying this because she has a history of using guys but he thinks he will be different) , and begged me and my husband to let her stay in our home ( since we have an extra guest room ) until he gets back , because she got kicked out of her rental.
At first I didnt want to but my brother literally begged us and even told us that she thinks she is pregnant and this way I could help her. So we told her she could but we did tell her that she would have to follow house rules ( no drinkiing, smoking, cussing, no coming in and out at all hours of the night and no more than 2 of her friends at a time- that rule is because all her friends are loud and say f*ck at every other word ... ) My husband and I dont do these things at home and especially not around our 2 small kids, so it doesnt make sense that she would get to either.
I mean it isnt like I was going to be on her back ..I mean if a few cuss words slip here and there, if she goes out a few times at night here and there, and if she has more than 2 friends over but they arent excessivly loud... i am not going to say anything.
It has now been 2 months and I am about to literally kick her butt out. I really really dont think she is pregnant ( when I emptied the trash cans there was a ton of tampons in there - enough to where if she was really pregnant there would be a problem for her to bleed that much to need that many) , her being pregnant was the reason that I basically caved and said she could live here.
She is constantly in and out at all hours - leaving the doors wide open, we will come home and she will have like 5-10 people out in our drive way "hanging out" , and one day we even came home and she had a guy in her room with her.
So I am done and when I told her that she is going to have to leave she got mad and said she shouldnt have to because just because she is livng with us doesnt mean she has to follow our stupid rules....GOD I CANT WAIT UNTIL SHE LEAVES !!!
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