I called my ex last week to talk about child support so that when we went in yesterday we would be on the same page. I asked him for 550 a month and he completely shot me down, I am already getting 400 from him but he will be making 19 an hour in a year, (he just started this job and starting rate is 15, so he will be getting a raise fairly often). We agreed to let them do the numbers and see what it says. The numbers came out to 473 a month. He also said that he did not want to help with child care on top of child support ( which are two different things but are combined at the conference). I let him claim our daughter because he was 5000 behind in child support with me and his ex and I didnt have any income ( but my mom could have claimed us both and I would have recieved that money plus what he owes in arrears, I just would have waited for him to make the weekly payments) I Did it to help him get caught up and out of debt. The full amount wasnt put on his arrears and he lied to me about it, he got 2400 back and kept it for himself even thought that money should have been mine and his ex's. And he sat in the conference and told me he would quit his job if i took him to court for the extra 75 dollars a month. Now on facebook, yes good old facebook, his friends are bashing me saying that I am a little girl, obviously because iwant him to provide more for our daughter. He said that he is basically providing everything for her because I am not working right now due to just graduating school last week, however when they did the support order they did put me at an earning capacity of 9.50 and hour ( thats alot more than minimum wage too).... I am furious, how do i get him to see that he is wrong in this situation and to stop bashing me to all his friends?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:14 AM on Mar. 2, 2011 in Relationships
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