So here's the skinny
My now recent ex went to foster care when he was two, got out when he was 9, lived with his mom 2 years and then she passed. He just contacted the county records dept and is having all records of his past maile to him. This effects him deeply.
On friday he works a 4p-1a shift and doesn't come home until 5am, where was he, hanging out with his loser friend.
Saturday he watched his son, sunday he didn't show and monday he didn't show so I could at least attend class, I am in my last semester. Tuesday no show, missed even more classes. So today I don't expect any different. So I just e-mailed my teacher vaguley explaining this so I could go to class on friday.
Well he doesn't answer his phone, and neither will his friend. I guess my dad happened to see him come in the house and take some stuff and leave with his friend.
He said "Being with my friend right now is more important to me." last I heard from him. So basically he is trying very hard to not help with his son, and he is typically a Great and I mean fantastic father.
I went to his job he said he'd meet to talk and he never showed I waithed like 20 minutes.
I dont make barely any momey, I'm about to have a 3 day notice if he doesnt pay rent. I am now looking for child care for in the early mornings when I don't have help. I also est monthly child support on the state calc. 365 bucks a month if I don't need child care and 765 bucks a month if I end up needing it, I am calling the attorney tomorrow and filingfor custody and support asap/ I know I will have at least this month rent paid becaise he just left friday. after that I am on my own.
am i jumping the gun, is he just emotional because of this mom thing
????? insight please
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