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Is love a decision or an emotion?

 
jewjewbee

Asked by jewjewbee at 8:15 AM on Mar. 2, 2011 in Religious Debate

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Answers (24)
  • i think it starts as an emotion, but then becomes (or has to for good or bad) a decision.
    boobarandbell

    Answer by boobarandbell at 9:39 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • I think its both. You may fall in love with someone but that is chemistry and eventually the feelings of a new relationship and excitement of it fade with time. At some point you have to decide if you want to remain in love with the person for all the good & bad they have to offer. Love is a commitment.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 8:17 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • There is a thing call physical attraction that many people equate with love, but true love is a choice and it also involves commitment. Feelings come and go, but true love wants the best for the one who is loved, more so than it wants fulfillment of its own desires. In marriage, issues of character are extremely important, and what too often happens is that folks are blinded by the emotional and/or physical attraction to the point that they miss key character traits that will be mighty hard to live with. I spent a great deal of time and energy teaching these principles to our children, and I am now teaching them to my grandchildren. Understanding this can alleviate much heartache and turmoil since physical attraction is not enough to sustain a marriage.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:44 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • it can be both
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 8:27 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • Emotion- deciding that love is enough when everything else in a relationship is wrong is a decision-
    soyousay

    Answer by soyousay at 8:38 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • Decision. You can have feelings of love and there several different types of love, but true love is an ACTION.
    pam19

    Answer by pam19 at 8:48 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • Love is a choice.
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 9:24 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • Both. Love is an action, and you can decide to love. And the act of loving and being loved creates emotions of love.
    SuperChicken

    Answer by SuperChicken at 9:07 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • I believe it to be both.
    zebbiebug

    Answer by zebbiebug at 9:34 AM on Mar. 2, 2011

  • emotion
    jenn4443

    Answer by jenn4443 at 9:36 AM on Mar. 2, 2011