sometimes we go through these "dry spells" if you will.....where neither of us feel up to it. i stay at home with 3 kids and he works over 50 hours a week. when we do have sex, its great. and admittedly i want it more than he does. and sometimes our "desires" mismatch and one of us will be in the mood and the other wont. lately ive been wanting it and hes been too tired. i know hes stressed from work im not worried about him cheating or anything. but is this unhealthy for a marriage? i think its been about 3 weeks since we last had sex. i do want it more frequently but only if hes in the mood. "i want him to want it" kinda thing.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:54 AM on Mar. 2, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by gemgem at 9:57 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
Answer by Musicmom80 at 10:06 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
Absolutely normal for two very busy slightly stressed adults. You need to make a "Date Night" in advance. If you can get someone to watch the kids, go out. if not then put them to bed early on a night that your DH doesn't have to work the next day. Get romantic first, then watch a movie together after. You need to plan it & you both will have something to look forward too. Make it special, wear something he likes & have fun!
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:10 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
Answer by Namaste17 at 10:02 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 10:18 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
Answer by letstalk747 at 11:25 AM on Mar. 2, 2011
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