I, like most women, love sex with my husband (especially if we both get to climax together). But for the past several months I find myself dreading his come ons. We had our second son (again by c-section) on May 7, 2010. Six weeks later we tied my tubes. My body hasn't been the same since. I've gained chub all around my body. Not really weight, more like it repositioned itself very poorly. I now have major love handles and my thighs and buttocks have gained two pants sizes. My arm meat is HUGE now. Setting aside the psychological downfall of gaining weight and not being able to bring myself to a healthier size....sex actually hurts. I have endometriosis, so that could be a part of it, maybe. If I am actually in the mood we have great amazing sex and I don't focus on the pain so much. The problem is that my drive is pretty much nonexistent now. I love my husband and he is an amazing father. Will I always have this intense stabbing pain during penetration? Is it because of the surgeries? Is there something a doctor might be able to do for me? Any suggestions are welcome as I am struggling to maintain some sense of my womanness with my adoring husband. *sigh*Answer Question
Answer by Musicmom80 at 1:05 PM on Mar. 2, 2011
Answer by MarGeee at 1:07 PM on Mar. 2, 2011
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