We live right in the middle of basicly his whole family. His aunt lives beside us, his mom, brother, and great grandpa live on the other side(beside us), his grandma lives 2 houses behind us, and his dad lives down the road. Dad is not an issue at all though. I absolutly LOVE all of his family, but i dont spend a lot of time with them, His aunt, although sweet as can be, drinks a lot and gets rather annoying sometimes, especially when she is drunk. We have to go over there to shower because our shower is broken and isnt fixed yet, so i only go over there to shower, and always come up with some kind of excuse to leave. Although i do take her dinner almost everynight, i feel like maybe i am being somewhat rude. He and his family knw that she can be annoying so im sure they understand. And with him mom and the rest of them, again, LOVE them, and they do not get on my nerves at all, but i rarely go over there. And when i do its usually with him. I just feel weird, i dont really have a reason to go over ther, but i feel i should because if ima be with him for the rest of my life then i need to be closer to them. Im closer to his aunt than anyone else. Am i wrong? What should i do? And for those of you who think i need to talk to him about it, i alrealdy have!! But, as usual, he just stares at me and says "i dunno baby"Answer Question
OP you are close to them, actually agreeing to LIVE that close. :) I don't visit my in laws w/o DH either. I too get along with them VERY WELL. I believe that is NORMAL for many.
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