We've had this issue before, where I often am left feeling dissastified with our sex life, and he blames his lack of sexual desires on his extremely busy job (works LONG days and always has work to do at home on the weekends-teacher) and usual state of stress. When we have it, it's great and amazing, but then we have periods of time where it can go a while without it and he seems not to care. I would do it once or twice a day if we could, but on average it's once a week (and only ever on weekend).
Anyway, the other night it seemed as if we were about to but then he said he was "too tired" and promised to do it the next night, which was last night. However when we finally went to bed, he totally forgot he said that and said he wasn't in the mood and as usual "too tired, it's a weekday"...
My point is- besides being extremely sexually frustrated (something we've talked about before) I kind of feel hurt and rejected. He doesn't realize how emotional/insecure I get over it sometimes. He had A LOT of sex in his 20's with A LOT of partners, and I think I get frustrated wondering why thanks to him oversexxing his twenties, I'm missing out now.
Any advice?? In any other situation have you been or felt rejected sexually? I can't stop thinking about it for some reason...
Also, if you have never been let down or have sex with your SO/DH every day, you're not the person I'd like to hear from- sry
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