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Would you?

Alright I admit I am a bit insecure bla bla anyway I'm supposed to go out with SO on a romantic dance night on this yacht. No doubt there will be sexier women there...anyway my question is would you take your SO out with you to some wher eyou know there will be a lot of sexy things to look at for him??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:30 PM on Nov. 20, 2008 in Relationships

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  • There are sexy women everywhere you go. You can't keep him secluded away. If he's going to look then it doesn't matter if your on a yacht or at the store. You have to trust him. Go and enjoy yourself! :O)

    Southerncharmes

    Answer by Southerncharmes at 11:39 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • Absolutely. We are secure in our relationship and there's nothing wrong with looking at the menu as long as you don't order lol
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 11:50 PM on Nov. 20, 2008

  • That sounds like a great time out. Don't let your insecurities hinder you from living! There are so many venues where there will be other women. Go and have a good time with your man and don't worry about who's there. You will probably be surprised...there may not be that many sexy women there anyway. Just women who THINK they are sexy!
    hopelessnance

    Answer by hopelessnance at 12:12 AM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • U have 2 remember, even if he looks, makes a comment..its who he goes home with,to..that really matters. Don't be scared to enjoy some fun things, bc there may be better looking women there... There will always be a person who is better at something than you...That doesn't mean to avoid it... Enjoy life, its too short to worry about appearances... 8)
    mrsfarris

    Answer by mrsfarris at 2:34 AM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • if he starts looking point out her flaws. Everyone has them, other people don't seem all that appealing when you can see what's wrong with them. Love tends to be "blind" in a way and for some reason the flaws of your partner don't matter as much as the flaws of others.
    ...then again i'm the type of person who goes to a party, befriends the gay guys and starts criticizing every one just because gossiping with gay men is fun...not to mention you find out some really juicy secrets...
    Also, strut your stuff. if you don't have real confidence, fake it, after a while it grows on you.
    chyna_doll

    Answer by chyna_doll at 2:39 AM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • Thank you so much ladies
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:12 AM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • There are going to women no matter where you go. You can't let it bother you.
    sammiesmom2000

    Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 10:59 AM on Nov. 21, 2008

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