ok heres the deal. my husband wanted anal sex, ive been ok with it in the past but not after i had my baby 4 months ago things are still pretty swollen so i told him no multiple times and i finally cracked under pressure. (ive never come during sex so this is nothing new) anyways. we did the deed but it hurt so bad and he asked if i wanted him to stop and i said no, ur in anyways. just finish. and he asked me if it hurt alot and I said yes, but finish anyways and he did. he didnt know at the time that it hurt so bad i was crying. now i feel like i was raped since i didnt want it and he ripped me anyways (even though there was plenty of lube) and its been a constant reminder all day of how weak i was
i know i consented but i didnt really want it and i feel like hubby was EXTREMELY selfish and now hes all sorry n shit and says hell never ask again (which is bull btw. he says that every time) but this time im really depressed. i feel betrayed and i dont think im going to want sex for a very long time.
am i wrong for feeling this way?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships
Feelings are never WRONG, they just are. I think that saying that though is a slap in the face to women who HAVE infact been raped. I think that next time you should just say NO and then tell him to quit being pathetic and begging. Or tell him that he can put something in your butt when you can put something in his.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 12:41 AM on Mar. 3, 2011
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Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 12:44 AM on Mar. 3, 2011
I am going to start over and say it ALL again. "Him saying that (meaning the constant nagging) is a slap in the face to women who have in fact been raped". Sorry.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 12:46 AM on Mar. 3, 2011
Answer by dusty1962 at 1:44 AM on Mar. 3, 2011