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What do you think?

A guy is in a relationship and something happens but he doesn't try to fight to make it work. A few years later, a guy dates another girl, and things don't go well between them, so they ended up breaking up, but this time, he fights hard to get her (the second girl) back. Have you heard of this situation before? Do you think that this is an indication that he loves the second girl more than the first girl he dated who he didn't fight for, knowing there was no chance things would work out between he and first girlfriend?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (4)
  • It goes to show who he is more committed to.


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • yeah he probably loved the second more but also maybe he lost the first one because he did not fight and knew it was too late and he did not want to lose his second one so he fought for her

    Answer by MKlein at 12:49 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Oh lawd.  I second my first opinion.  I think it means that he might realize he made a mistake the first time and is trying not to make the same mistake the second time.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 12:54 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Yes it does, no man will fight for something he doesn't want and it seems like if he is fighting for girl number 2 than this is what he wants and he won't stop until he gets her.
    Girl number 1 shouldn't waste her time and move one because he isn't figting for her.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 1:36 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

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