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Should you have to fight for love or is it something that should come easy?

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Asked by MKlein at 12:55 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • well, well, well, thats one good question.

    Answer by scottshoney at 12:57 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • I've always wondered that too. I spent too long in a relationship where I fought to keep it together. If I meet someone worth falling in love with I hope it comes easy this time. I know it won't be without it's hardships I just hope it's not the battle it was with my ex.

    Answer by myree85 at 12:59 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • i hope you have to fight for it cus this sure isnt easy..and i think im in love

    Answer by KATIEANDROWY at 1:00 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • LOVE is always a fight especially trying to keep it. Work on it daily and do your part to keep it alive.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 1:34 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • A fight.. No. Not easy... True.

    Answer by crazymommy2007 at 2:12 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • A fight but as long as he fights for you, too. Its never easy.

    Answer by vjoaquin at 2:27 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • It came easy for me, why should you have to fight for it.

    Answer by HKing01 at 11:10 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • i wish it came easy but it doesnt

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 2:04 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • To me love is a choice. Yes at first you get all the butterflies and what not from a new relationship, but after a few years they are basically gone. Then you have to choose if you want to stay, or go and get a new relationship. My husband and I chose to be together and vowed as much at church. We dont really have to work hard at our relationship because we were friends first so it comes easy for us. It isnt all rainbows & butterflies of course, but we have friendship to fall back on. If I had to fight to stay with my husband (and some of it is fighting yourself) then it wouldnt be worth it.

    Answer by gemgem at 2:07 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • A little bit of both

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:07 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

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