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Im paranoid

lately i have been soooo paranoid that my husband is going to cheat on me or leave me, and i have no idea why really, he never has before. i need to get over this feeling causse its going to drive me and him crazy. how can i stop, i've never felt so insecure. i think it might have something to do with his ex girlfriend sending him a friend request on facebook.. but he devied her and never spoke to her..but i still freaked out. am i crazy? i feel crazy ..has any one else ever had this dumb feeling

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Asked by KATIEANDROWY at 1:12 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Don't worry, everyone is on Face book even granma' now if you find evidence that he cheating then worry but until then just calm down and enjoy your relationship and don't give him any reasons to cheat.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 1:25 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • I wouldnt worry about it until you do have proof. Did he accept her on FB? Cuz if he did then you might wanna say something

    Answer by MOM2DYLnHAYLEE at 1:39 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • no he didnt accept it...but he didnt deny it either just left it......

    Comment by KATIEANDROWY (original poster) at 1:43 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about... Good luck.

    Answer by crazymommy2007 at 1:56 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Maybe he didn't deny it because that might rile her up more than just letting it sit.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • oMG i FEEL THE SAME WAY SOMETIMES! srry about the caps lol. but i have never caught him cheating, so i dont think he ever would, dont worrie about it hun, just think ur to beautiful to ever be cheated on :)

    Answer by Mxcxr16 at 9:04 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • thank you im glad im not the only one :)

    Comment by KATIEANDROWY (original poster) at 11:45 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • I have been feeling the same way ever since I found out my husband was going
    to lunch with women in his business. He never cheated but I feel like he betrayed me
    and I wonder what else he did that I don;t know about.,

    Answer by PILLOWTALK123 at 6:57 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • ya mee tooo.. i always am scared cus i find out little things like girls thats he hung out with ..and i wonder if he did anything with them or if he like talks to them when hes at work or something ...hahha i dont know i drive myselfcrazy though :(

    Comment by KATIEANDROWY (original poster) at 1:06 AM on Mar. 11, 2011

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