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Does your SO give good back rubs?

My DH doesn't. And it really sucks because I've had back problems ever since my son was born and I had an epidural. There's this one spot on my spine that feels as though there's a metal rod stuck in it. Anyway, hubs gives bad back rubs and I don't know how to get him to improve! At least he tries.


Asked by metalhealthmom at 2:16 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • no he sucks!!!!! he is very big guy and he uses too much force when giving me massages, i might as well be clubbed in the back.


    Answer by gwen20 at 3:44 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Well if you have back problems, why not just go to a chiropractor or a masseuse rather than expecting it of your husband?  My husband doesn't give good massages either but he does a lot of other things really well :)


    Answer by Syphon at 7:09 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Yes DH does! Which is good bc I have scoliosis which causes a lot of back problems for me!

    Answer by vjoaquin at 2:23 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Dh does yes, but it's usually me giving most of the back rubs.

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 2:37 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Occasionally. :)

    Answer by Hatsumomo at 4:50 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • yes when hes in the mood..

    Answer by smiley745 at 7:35 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • He does, and it's very helpful, but if you're doesn't, why not tell him what you need him to do. Using lotion help, too. If that doesn't work, then go get a professional massage.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 8:22 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Give him a backrub, showing him just how and where you want him to rub. Maybe that will help.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 8:22 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • He doesn't really give back rubs.

    Answer by HKing01 at 11:07 AM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • no i dont get any back rubs but he always wants 1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:46 PM on Mar. 3, 2011