Sometimes i feel like i'm being controlled but idk if these are the signs, could you help me out...
so i think back to last weekend and we were out to the bar, mind you, i never go out without my hubby. My sis and i decided while he was talking to a friend, to go and find a table closer by the DJ by ourselves, after a while, I offer to get us our drinks, so i have to walk across the room (its a big bar), some guy comes up to me and asks me if i'm single, "yes im married." , then he proceeds to worry about me talking to another guy while hubby may be watching me, i told him not to worry about it then he asks if i have single friends and i say no and walk away. I love dancing so i dance they way i like to but i'm not dancing with anyone else but my sis.
We get home that night and he b****es me out about moving to another part of the bar without telling him but accuses me of doing so that he couldnt see what i was doing and then tells me that i wanted to screw the man i was talking to while getting the drinks and then also asks me if i felt sexy because he flirted with me. He then says "Do you like playing with your hair and dancing like that?" - wierd.
i asked him a few questions about my credit report yesterday online so the computer recognizes me before it showed it to me, when he gets home, he texts me and asks me why i think i need to check my credit report almost like he's freaking OUT! i asked someone else why he thought my hubby would freak out over such a thing...he says "maybe because i'm showing independence and he doesnt like that."
also, my sis invited me out to girls night out last friday and he wouldnt let me go, he says its not fair on his part, i understand that BUT i have a feeling i'm never allowed to go by myself he was making up other excuses except for one that i felt that he wanted to say but didnt that i was going to screw someone...another thing is he constantly texts me if i do EVER get out of the house by myself (i dont drive), i got a tattoo on monday with my girlfriend (he stayed home cause i told him she wanted just us girls) and if i didnt answer all his questions, he would surely call me right away, but that goes for anytime i go somewhere by myself and it isnt that often.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:49 AM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships
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