I'll be up front & say I don't trust my husband. We've been living separately about 5 days out of the week due to school & work & i don't drive. We only spend the weekends together so after work, he has plenty of free time. during those 5 days, i stay with my mother with our three kids so i can walk my daughter to school across the street. I don't always know where he is when we're apart.
anyway, to get to the point. he & his friend "H" are having a lot of problems. his best friend is saying they love him but act like they hate him behind his back. it pisses me off because it's all high school drama all over again. anyway, one of his friends "M" sent him a text saying they saw him at mcdonalds with a nice looking girl who was definitely not his wife, but i knew it was me. he didn't want to correct them and say it was me. he said "just let them think what they want, you know it was you" so i left it alone.
now, i see his best friend "H"s wife's post on fb saying: "ERR... So annoyed by douch bags u say ur all about family but that girl u always chillin wid sure don't look like ur wife to me...I'm just being real..." and the comments pretty much confirm that they're talking about my husband. I don't know if they're refering to "M" seeing us at mcdonalds because that was only once, and her post says "ALWAYS" chilling with.
i called my husband and told him i want to comment & say "you should snitch, if i were that wife, i'd want to know. cheaters should be exposed" because they're beating around the bush and because i want to know if there's anything i don't know about that they are keeping from me. he was furious with me & said i was letting them win because they're making us fight. but he seems really defensive & almost in a state of panic that i'm attempting to contact her. he said go ahead & call her then & gave me her number. but he said he's the most angry and disappointed in me ever in our whole marriage because i don't trust him. but i never hid the fact from him that i didn't trust him. i just really want to know if he's cheating on me. should i just trust him and not call, or should i trust my gut and call her to find out?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships
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