We were "separated" for a year.We got back together last October right around our 3rd wedding anniversary. Things were weird for a while, but over all they're better than ever now. We're closer, more open about our feelings, we fight way less (we've only had two minor fights that lasted about 5 minutes), we're more open and comfortable sexually, etc.
Three months isn't very long, it's going to take time. Check out some relationship help books, couple's therapy, etc. and I have to second the vote for the movie Fireproof. That movie is what made me realize that I still loved my husband and wanted to fix things.It really changed my perspective. It's a Christian themed movie based on a book called The Love Dare, but even as a non-Christian, it really helped me. I know people don't think highly of him, but Dr. Phil's relationship workbook and the book that goes with it helped me, too. Good luck hun! If you need to talk, I'm here.
at 8:38 PM on Mar. 3, 2011