My husband and i met while i was in school. he is 27 and i will be 22 in 3 weeks. He works from 5am to 2pm at walmart. then comes home and watch our show. He has been diagnosed with Anxiety and it seems like every other week or day he gets sick because of it, and always talks to his mom about it and me. May i add his mom has Anxiety too so when he talks to her, then she gets worked up and calls me the next day while he is at work.
I love him and our family but it seems like his anxiety is tearing us apart. I think he is using it so he can get out of helping me at home. I also tell him it's all in his head to make himself feel sick when he really is not. I do that too, i can tell myself that i am not feeling good, and my body instantly kicks in and i get a upset stomach.
Do u think it's all in his head or am i just used to all my problems from the past that i don't know how to handle his?
Answer by ILoveCade at 6:56 PM on Mar. 3, 2011
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Answer by kayslay at 7:38 PM on Mar. 3, 2011
i think it would really benefit you to do some research on Anxiety- Anxiety is Very Real- it effects people in different ways; i have been dealing with Depression & Anxiety for a Long Time- Counseling has helped me by giving me the tools to work through a Panic Attack & Learning how to Calm Down- Maybe your Husband should look into Therapy- it will help him- It is Not All in his Head- By telling him that, you are probably making his Anxiety go over the Top!
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