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How long was it "just you two" before you had children?

My LP started dating really young (in high school) and we were together about 7 years before our first LO...and that is by far the longest I've known anyone with kids to be together before the babies started coming lol


Asked by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 8:14 PM on Mar. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • 5 years

    Answer by Raccoon at 8:16 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Not long for us, about 1year, 9 months. And it was never really just us two because I had kids before meeting him.

    Answer by keisha613 at 8:16 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • We were together just over ten years by the time our daughter was born.

    Answer by MaryMW at 8:17 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • I had my DD, DH is her SD.

    Answer by idaspida at 8:18 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • My husband and I had been married 5 years before our first child was born.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:18 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • We had our son about 3 years after we got married (after about 3 1/2 years of being together--including the time we were dating).

    Answer by pam19 at 8:19 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • 5 years for us, too.

    Answer by mom2aspclboy at 8:22 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • 7 years married before my son was born.

    Answer by LadyKiki at 8:26 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • Now I don't feel so strange. It seems like most of my friends have averaged 2 - 3 years from first date to first baby...but then again, it has taken them a little while longer to find someone and start thinking about babies where I started a little earlier on life plans. We are currently on "baby watch" for one of my besties who turns 30 this year and just got married in December. They were together a year before their wedding, and have been trying since dust!!...I can't wait for her! lol

    Comment by Mom-2-3-Girlz (original poster) at 8:32 PM on Mar. 3, 2011

  • We met in July, got engaged in August, married in Feb, and had DS in August, so about a year, from the time we met.

    Answer by musicpisces at 8:32 PM on Mar. 3, 2011