My sister-in-law has extremely different style than me. Her idea of planning ahead is think about something 5 seconds before it happens. My idea of being spontaneous is planning something 3 days before it happens. A lot of things have happened over the years which I don't want to go into, but my gripe is basically I don't care what your style is, as long you don't affect my life and do not expect me to pick up after you (that's why we have children). Anyway, we are spending a day together tomorrow with a distant cousin who flew 17 hours to visit US, we'll just be shopping and walking around (yes, she planned it so there's no plan). I need someone to give a calming quote or a simple advise that I can remind myself tomorrow all day so I don't blow up on her face.
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