A little background...My DD is now 18 years old and I have recently just gave her the information regarding her biological father. (name, location, etc). Please understand it is not that I have keep this information from her for 18 years, but he never was interested in my DD. The last time the BF(biological father) seen my DD, she was 18 months old.
Well, she has contacted her BF and they have talked, texted everything. Honestly, I have to say that I am very surprised about his reaction especially after all these years, but I am very happy for my DD. BF and me have even spoken on the phone several times, and things have been very nice between us.
Well...here is the shocker...the BF just informed me that he is going to be in my state in a couple of weeks and would like to come and see my DD. She would like see him and I am excited for her, but I personally feel it is too soon. They have only been talking for 2 months and since we live in different states, I'm just afraid this could be a one time thing and I don't want my DD to be hurt.
Please someone give me some advice. I'm just afraid that my DD is going to be hurt by him not showing up or these being a once in a lifetime thing.
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