hubby and i have been married a year and two months, he's 20.
he never really wants to have sex, he just seems not interested.
like we go days and days without it
it makes me feel like shit so i get angry and blow up over it and then he tells me i'm a sex addict and i only married him for his d*ck
i tell him that's not true at all that i just would like to be wanted sometimes
i don't feel like i should be the one to have to hint that i want sex, he should come onto me too you know?
idk i need advice or something, thanks.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:20 AM on Mar. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:22 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by jenn4443 at 11:23 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
You need to talk about it with him in a calm manner. Tell him how it makes you feel and have him tell you how he feels. Yelling and getting angry isn't going to do anything but get his defenses up.
My husband and I have been married almost 8 years and one thing I have learned is that everything has a cycle. Sometimes you want sex more, sometimes you want it less. It usually comes full circle. It isn't always fun and passionate but it grows and changes as long as you have the fortitude to stick it out. Talk to him but don't yell.
Your self worth should not be dependent on whether or not he wants to have sex. That has to come from within yourself. Good luck.
Answer by NickLukeandEmma at 11:27 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by Krisn4 at 11:29 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
So it is okay for a woman to not want to have sex all of the time but a man can't refuse without being a cheater? Interesting.
Answer by NickLukeandEmma at 11:35 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by kaylan010 at 11:35 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by HKing01 at 11:39 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
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