and the anxiety is building up....
I am having a hystorectomy, bladder lift, and sling with some pelvic floor repair, and bowel suspention....
I need and want to have the surgery but I am a little worried about the after math...
I have a pretty high tolerance for pain... but I am not sure I will be so tough for this one!
also the morbid thoughts keep creeping in, I asked my husband that if something were to go wrong ont eh table that my twins NEVER EVER know the reason I had the surgery... I dont want the twins to EVER EVER feel any type of regret.
I feel like I need to get to the lawyer and get my living will... and final wished filed so that god forbid anything happen my kids are well teking care of!!!
Is this normal?
am I over reacting...
this is NOT my first surgery but it the the first MAJOR one!
Answer by JSD24 at 11:53 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by ObbyDobbie at 11:56 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Hun, I do think you are over reacting a bit, you need to go into this surgery with positive thoughts not negative ones. It so happens I am scheduled for a full hysterectomy on the 14th of this month, my bladder will also be lifted, and my ovaries will be removed as well, I don't need them anymore, I am 61. Mine is being done laparoscopy procedure, going in through the belly button and two small incisions on each side that do not even require stitches. This now adays is not your surgery of 20 years ago, you will do just fine!!!!! positive thinking bring in positive results.
Answer by older at 11:59 AM on Mar. 4, 2011
Answer by gdiamante at 12:06 PM on Mar. 4, 2011
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Answer by stella73 at 12:47 PM on Mar. 4, 2011