I love my daughter but I wish that I didn't decide to keep her..life is so hard for both of us sometimes, not that things aren't good right now its just frusterating when things dont go right, and working on teaching my SO how to deal with being a parent is not easy at all.. and he blew up at us on wed's because we were not ready to leave the hotel when he was so we could travel all day to go to nanty glo...and he said he wanted to ship us back to SD.. which I do not want.. I just wish it could all be easy as PIE sometimes INSTEAD of PUSH PUSH PUSH PUSH to get anywhere.. which seems to be my life.. I wish i could have been left to my own demise instead of having life in my belly, and having to change everything to make it so WE can survive together..I even had to give up horses because what the hell would happen if I got hurt when she was even younger than she is now? (shes three now and I dont regret her I jjust feel like im just screwing her life up..
sorry for rantingish.. but yeah
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Mar. 4, 2011 in Relationships
well the honesty is brave. Good for you for being honest with yourself. My fav quote that has helped me many times is" If you cannot change something, change the way you think about it". This life is full of hardships, and this is what you need to go through right now so that you can learn from it. What are you missing here? I mean what are supposed to be getting out of this that you are not? You are are mother and that is the most important thing you need to do. And if you cannot or you feel that this is something that someone else could do better, I think you know what you should do then. Your child is worth it.
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