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3 Bumps

What do you think about????

a 34 year old man being with an planing on marrying a 20 year old?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:32 PM on Mar. 4, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (24)
  • More power to them.  Not my business.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 4:33 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • I think he must be VERY immature and I would wonder if she had some sort of daddy complex going on.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:33 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • At those ages, I think it's too wide a gap. If he were 74 and she were 60, it would be a different matter.

    Answer by NannyB. at 4:34 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • I think it's not ideal, but would have to take the circumstances into account. My DH is 12 years older than me. I was 21 and he was 34 when we met, and I turned him down when he first expressed interest because the age difference was too much for me. We hooked up 2 years later. I would never date someone with that age difference unless I knew them really well. In which case, you can't stop a good thing! The age difference does add some challenges to the relationship, though, no matter what anyone says.

    Answer by Adelicious at 4:35 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • who cares its their busniess

    Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 4:35 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • None of my business. Last time I checked 20 yr olds were legal to marry.

    Answer by gemgem at 4:37 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • I think its their business and who are any of us to judge!

    Answer by parajumper3 at 4:37 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • It depends on the two people. My parents are 14 years apart and they've been married for 25 years.

    Answer by mandyxoxo at 4:37 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • Whatever floats their boat.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 4:38 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • Wasn't that kind of around the age difference of Mr. Big and Carrie Bradshaw? GO FOR IT.

    Answer by metalhealthmom at 4:39 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

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