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I dont understand what is up wit my ex.

we are sleeping togeather but he has a girlfriend and he says he loves me and not her and dosnt want to be with her but he still is. he is ruling his life and im geting sick of him not telling me how he really feel about this girl i think that if he really loved me he would tell me.. what should i do

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:48 PM on Nov. 21, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Wake up and smell the coffe girl! He dosnt know WHO he wants. He is obviously using BOTH of you. Re consider your priorities in your own life. Dont ever put all your hopes and dreams in the hands of a man who cant commit to ONE woman. Rely only on yourself because ultimately YOU are responsible for your own happyness. Not him or anyone else.

    Answer by vbruno at 1:51 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • Stop sleeping with him until he leaves the other girl. He is trying to have the best of both worlds and youre letting him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:51 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • You should stop sleeping with him, he has a girlfriend, and its not you.

    And you should try to see the fact that he is using both of you, and he is not going to tell either one of you the truth. If he really loved you and wanted to be with you, he would.

    Answer by CarolynBarnett at 1:51 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • Stay away from him. If he hasn't left her yet, he's not going to. You are the other woman, and you need to just back off. If it is meant to be, then wait until he is definitely NOT with this girl anymore.

    Answer by feesharose at 1:51 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • he's an ex for a reason and you're now the other woman.

    Answer by chyna_doll at 1:56 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • its just that he is the father of my kids... and i love him and im young and confused

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:56 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • if he loved you, he wouldn't be sleeping with her. you would be his girl not his ex thats he is cheating on his girl with....he's a dog, i would get out.

    Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 1:59 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • girl please. dont try to use being young as an excuse. im only 22 and i know better than that. you just need to realize that if he still has a girlfriend your nothing but a thing on the side (sorry if that sound mean) but thats all you are. he needs to grow up. if he doesnt want her he needs to leave her. you should feel ashamed for sleeping with someone elses man. realize that he is no longer yours. and move on. just make sure he does for his kids. he has no respect for his girlfriend or you to be using both of you.

    Answer by NATTY567 at 2:03 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

  • What causes HIV?
    HIV infection is caused by the human immunodeficiency virus. You can get HIV from contact with infected blood, semen, or vaginal fluids.

    Most people get the virus by having unprotected sex with someone who has HIV

    just something to think about

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Nov. 21, 2008


    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Nov. 21, 2008

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