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If my husband says Quit Whining is it disrespectful?

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Asked by injoynature at 11:33 PM on Mar. 4, 2011 in Relationships

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  • It all depends on if you're whining or not I suppose.

    Answer by Laila-May at 11:34 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • Yes, he's using it as a way to belittle your feelings, and dismiss you. That's disrespectful to say to your spouse.

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:34 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • i agree w/ musicmom

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 11:35 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • Yeah he is just being nice telling you to be quiet or enough already...Tell him how you feel.

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 11:43 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • It really depends, are you whining? If he is doing it to just shut you up, yes it's disrespectful. If he is doing it because you are whining, then no.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 11:50 PM on Mar. 4, 2011

  • Is he referring to you? It would definitely be disrespectful to say that to your spouse. If he whines, call him on it and see how he reacts.

    Answer by amessageofhope at 12:20 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • if you are whining, it is not disrespectful.

    Answer by janet116 at 12:27 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • why are you whining?

    Answer by tirelessefforts at 3:57 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • It depends.

    Answer by HKing01 at 10:20 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • What is a less whinier way to express my anger that I have to reload the dishwasher and run it again because all the dishes did not get clean for the hundredth time and I have already told everyone the correct way to load the machine.

    Comment by injoynature (original poster) at 11:11 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

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