I talked to her briefly online tonight. but my IM was acting up. She said she would call me tomorrow. She's very upset right now. and doesn't want to talk on the phone. I told her to stay strong and try to get some sleep and we would talk tomorrow. I wish i could have taken her with me when i left that ass of a father of hers, she seems so unhappy. but she's not my daughter she's his. His son is the golden boy and i get the impression his daughter is just his house maid. He's never really seemed abusive, just not there for her, and very self absorbed. I've been trying since the divorce to keep my distance. I talk to her from time to time but try not get too involved because after all he is her father and she is a teen girl, you know how dramatic they can be. Not sure what is truth and what is dramatized. since i don't talk to the ex at all i can't get his side.
Tonight she IM'd me that "she can't handle it anymore. she attempted suicide her freshman year.but her dad said she was only doing it to embarrasse him. she tried councelling last year and it blew up in her face and was 5x worse at home. she hardly sleeps anymore, is always angry and sad. she can't wait to turn 18 and be rid of her dad and her brother. they spend all the money on drugs and won't help her with school supplies clothes, rides to work, nothing! she hates them and hates being their slave anymore."
How can I help? how much can i help without crossing the line?
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