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Do you hate being called a "BABY MOMA"

Ok so im in the store and i see my oldest daughter's aunt
and shes shopping with her friend
when she sees me she says to her friend:
Jen:this Kj"s BabyMoma

that freakn irritated me i hate being called a baby momma
i am not a baby momma i am A mother

am i the only one who hateS being called a BABY MOMMA?

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Asked by LABELmeCUTE at 1:36 AM on Mar. 5, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • I would of said something!! Nobody calls me that I am either the boy's mom or Rocco's wife! That is it !

    Answer by momavanessa at 1:40 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • LOL, I get irritated by some things, but nothing so trivial. I don't really care what I am called.

    Answer by judimary at 1:40 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • @momavanessa i wanted to but i was in one of those moods,& if i would of said something me and that lady would have been fighting in the store lol we allready dont like each other so instead i just smiled and said hello to the friend

    Comment by LABELmeCUTE (original poster) at 1:45 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • It bothers me, I feel like it's disrespectful. Maybe cause I associate it with the saying "baby mama drama", and I feel like I'm not the drama, DS's dad is. I leave him alone and don't care what he does with his life. He's the one that won't leave me alone.

    Answer by myree85 at 1:55 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • I will jokingly refer to myself as "baby momma" when meeting friends of my ex husband because I feel uncomfortable being called "ex wife" or calling him my "ex husband." It seems so negative whereas joking in that way lightens things up a bit.

    I can see why people would be offended by it though.

    Answer by Laila-May at 2:04 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • I have never been called that. Only, "Little Mama" lol

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 2:41 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • Nobody's ever called me that to my knowledge.

    Answer by JuliaW at 2:43 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • I don't mind being called 'little mama' but like myree85 said the '"baby mama drama' annoys the hell out of me to.

    Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 3:18 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • I've never been called a "baby momma" but I think that would bother me.

    Answer by tirelessefforts at 3:40 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • I would have said "Hi, I'm ___'s mom. Nice to meet you." Yes, I think the phrase baby momma is pretty trashy.

    Answer by scout_mom at 9:38 AM on Mar. 5, 2011

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