First off, I absolutely love my husband, he loves me, and we have a rediculously strong friendship. This problem is that for most of our marriage, that's about all it has been. We got married too fast and have stayed together. We both want more than we can give each other but don't know how. Most of the time we feel like we're just not right for each other. We have done counseling, we've tried to find faith and have issues with that too. We don't want to cheat on each other and we struggle with our faith because our religion says that divorce is wrong unless adultrey is present. We have put ourselves in a position where we have to live together or we lose just about everything. Our schedules are very sensative and in the area we live in jobs are scarce so we have to keep the ones we have, no exceptions. We both grew up in "sweep it under the rug" type families which led to messy and painful divorces. We do not want to hurt each other but we aren't happy. So my question, do we suck it up and spend our lives wondering what if, or do we split and drag our family out of comfort so that we can start from scratch on our own on the chance that there is someone else out there to make both of us happy? Is there a happy medium that won't make us feel like bad people? What are your thoughts?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:31 AM on Mar. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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