Be patient, which is easier said than done. It can take normal, healthy, fertile couples up to a year to concieve. It took 6 mo. with DD and I understand because those six months felt like eternity with a mix of emotions that just about drove me insane. Biggest thing, don't let people telling you to relax, it will happen, get to you. They often don't realize how rude that is to say to someone that just cannot seem to get pregnant. Also, don't let anyone make you feel like God will let you get pregnant when he is ready for it. It is a biological process, not something that is ordained by some higher power, but if you hear it enough it is easy to start thinking that "dumb chick A" is more favored by "god" to have her "accident" baby than "truly in love with her hubby chick B" is to have her planned and wanted child. Inform and educate yourself about fertility and it might make you feel better about things.
at 6:57 PM on Nov. 21, 2008