Im married now, but been divorced twice with kids from both marriages. Both situations are different. First ex has only seen his kids a handful of times since we seperated/divorced. Never over nights. He had joint but never took his visits. I then got sole custody.
My 2nd ex its a long long horrible story but I had custody, he had shared for awhile, he tried to keep my son from me, I got custody again, then he got custody, its been a battle back and forth and my son being used as a weapon by my ex. Because of that I always encourage parents to share their kids. Its horrible for a child to be put in the middle simply because one parent wants revenge. You might not think thats what it is, but in SOME it is. They are hurt and want to punish the other parent. Make sure you dont do that.
at 10:30 AM on Mar. 5, 2011